September 13, 2016

You're Never Alone

Friendship. An eternal bond that unites groups of people and makes them feel as if they are the only people on the planet. Sincere invincibility and superiority! It's not something to be messed with, trust me you will seriously regret it. Such relationships take what feels like lifetimes to build and stabilize. However, they can be destroyed in a split second. These are people who are always here for you, even when you feel under the weather. Nothing is stronger than this connection, especially when you know that you can always count on them. They are your true friends, what more do you need in life!

Now here comes a day when you are at your absolute worst. All your walls just came crashing down. You've just been left in the darkness and you are tugging on the strings that make up who you are, questioning the activities and purposes that used to motivate you every day. People have just stripped a significant part of your identity, the only reason you smile. Those people have completely shut you out, screamed until their throats were dry, and left you on the floor, curled up, and praying, "Please don't hurt me any more", as tears stream down your face. 

No matter what you have been put through, the real friends will come rushing back to you. Your best friends, who are the closest thing you have to another family, understand that you think you have hit rock bottom. They remind you that the only direction from there, is up! They love you, they comfort you, whenever you need it the most. They are willing to go out of their way to appreciate you and cherish this beautiful bond that is such a privilege to all of you. Once you find these people, you have been blessed-- it really is a give from the Gods.

Before this moment you thought that no one else loved you, that no one else felt your pain. As hard as it is to believe back then, your friends are the ones who will help you get through it together. They assure you that you don't have to go through what you're going through alone. Sure, you might not even want to tell them what happened, it might be too personal and maybe even put the ones you love in an awkward position if someone else found out. But, that's the wonderful thing about friends. They know you so well! They won't poke their noses into your life when you tell them not to, because they respect your privacy. They are not going to stab you in the back and take advantage of your trust. All that matters is that you have someone to talk to, someone to rant to, and someone who will genuinely listen. 

So, heres to the fabulous friends in our lives! Thank you for always cheering us up and keeping us laughing every day :) You know who you are! We love you!

-N

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