Accomplishments. You have had so many of them. Getting A's in school, making friends, achieving your sports goals. These are all reasons to celebrate. You have put in all the time and effort, even on days where you didn't even feel like getting out of bed, and it definitely paid off. You have worked so hard to achieve all these amazing things, and I want to congratulate you in everything you have accomplished so far.
I'm your cheerleader! In case you haven't heard it enough, I'm so proud of you for doing your best and completely dominating out there! Appreciation these days is very hidden behind the scenes, but you never know when that tiny bit of support can do wonders for a person. I've heard that support and praise can act as a jinx, and I totally see where people can get that idea. To be honest, I do believe in people stating the truth and not sugar coating. But every once a while, especially when we are in our darkest hour, a little kudos can go a long way. I've experienced failure countless times, and it's no doubt that I will fail more in the future. After so many falls, it surprises me how I still have hope when people have told me to completely give up on my goals. It's at times like these where I turn to those who will spark my energy to make a difference in my habits.
Always have trust in who you are. Never forget that. Believe in yourself even if no one is there to support you. You are your biggest fan, share the success and learn from the tough times. Remember to not lose focus and stay humble, because things could possible take a turn for the worse at any moment. After you think about all that, take a deep breath and just go for it 100%! I know your capabilities and you can achieve them all. You have come so far and I want you to just keep going. Each day take steps to improve yourself as a person. It will get tough, but with the right attitude, you'll get through it so much easier. Finally, don't let anyone stop you from accomplishing what you genuinely want to. They don't understand how powerful your mind is compared to their words.
You go guys! Keep up the good work! I can't see what amazing rewards are in store for your perseverance and determination! Chase your dreams!
-N
Welcome to my blog! Making people smile has always been a dream of mine and combined with my passion to spread happiness and confidence, it really drives me to inspire others to be the change they want to see in the world. I sincerely hope you enjoy reading these short commentaries!
September 20, 2016
September 13, 2016
You're Never Alone
Friendship. An eternal bond that unites groups of people and makes them feel as if they are the only people on the planet. Sincere invincibility and superiority! It's not something to be messed with, trust me you will seriously regret it. Such relationships take what feels like lifetimes to build and stabilize. However, they can be destroyed in a split second. These are people who are always here for you, even when you feel under the weather. Nothing is stronger than this connection, especially when you know that you can always count on them. They are your true friends, what more do you need in life!
Now here comes a day when you are at your absolute worst. All your walls just came crashing down. You've just been left in the darkness and you are tugging on the strings that make up who you are, questioning the activities and purposes that used to motivate you every day. People have just stripped a significant part of your identity, the only reason you smile. Those people have completely shut you out, screamed until their throats were dry, and left you on the floor, curled up, and praying, "Please don't hurt me any more", as tears stream down your face.
No matter what you have been put through, the real friends will come rushing back to you. Your best friends, who are the closest thing you have to another family, understand that you think you have hit rock bottom. They remind you that the only direction from there, is up! They love you, they comfort you, whenever you need it the most. They are willing to go out of their way to appreciate you and cherish this beautiful bond that is such a privilege to all of you. Once you find these people, you have been blessed-- it really is a give from the Gods.
Before this moment you thought that no one else loved you, that no one else felt your pain. As hard as it is to believe back then, your friends are the ones who will help you get through it together. They assure you that you don't have to go through what you're going through alone. Sure, you might not even want to tell them what happened, it might be too personal and maybe even put the ones you love in an awkward position if someone else found out. But, that's the wonderful thing about friends. They know you so well! They won't poke their noses into your life when you tell them not to, because they respect your privacy. They are not going to stab you in the back and take advantage of your trust. All that matters is that you have someone to talk to, someone to rant to, and someone who will genuinely listen.
So, heres to the fabulous friends in our lives! Thank you for always cheering us up and keeping us laughing every day :) You know who you are! We love you!
-N
Now here comes a day when you are at your absolute worst. All your walls just came crashing down. You've just been left in the darkness and you are tugging on the strings that make up who you are, questioning the activities and purposes that used to motivate you every day. People have just stripped a significant part of your identity, the only reason you smile. Those people have completely shut you out, screamed until their throats were dry, and left you on the floor, curled up, and praying, "Please don't hurt me any more", as tears stream down your face.
No matter what you have been put through, the real friends will come rushing back to you. Your best friends, who are the closest thing you have to another family, understand that you think you have hit rock bottom. They remind you that the only direction from there, is up! They love you, they comfort you, whenever you need it the most. They are willing to go out of their way to appreciate you and cherish this beautiful bond that is such a privilege to all of you. Once you find these people, you have been blessed-- it really is a give from the Gods.
Before this moment you thought that no one else loved you, that no one else felt your pain. As hard as it is to believe back then, your friends are the ones who will help you get through it together. They assure you that you don't have to go through what you're going through alone. Sure, you might not even want to tell them what happened, it might be too personal and maybe even put the ones you love in an awkward position if someone else found out. But, that's the wonderful thing about friends. They know you so well! They won't poke their noses into your life when you tell them not to, because they respect your privacy. They are not going to stab you in the back and take advantage of your trust. All that matters is that you have someone to talk to, someone to rant to, and someone who will genuinely listen.
So, heres to the fabulous friends in our lives! Thank you for always cheering us up and keeping us laughing every day :) You know who you are! We love you!
-N
September 6, 2016
Livin' on the Edge!
Fears. I have them, and I'm sure you have them too. You know the feeling; your heart races, you breath shortens, your fists clench, your eyes shut tight, and you try to block out the world. You know that this therapy works as well as you want it to, so you add noise canceling headphones, just to be safe, and blast the music of your favorite artists. You use your imagination and do your best to pretend that you are in your happy place, filled with every memory that has ever made you smile. But, don't open your eyes, you say. Or you are going to have to start over and attempt to "re-zen" yourself. There's nothing wrong with that. Fears don't make you any less manly. It just makes you more human.
The only thing I ask of you is, don't let your fears control you. Don't let them bully you. Don't let them hold you back. So what? You experienced something that was a little out of your comfort zone and it caught you off guard. Big deal. But, are you really going to live with that for the rest of your life? Are you going to surrender and let that shadow trail behind you wherever you go? I hope we are thinking the same thing...No! Having fears is great! It means you have witnessed or even tried new things! Why stop now? Life is just getting to the good part!
What's really manly is overcoming your fears, pushing it to the limit, and spreading your wings no matter what possible scenario could happen! Be totally optimistic with it, go in with a great attitude and a smile on your face. You're only limited by your thoughts so carry on with that positivity and motivation to be completely fearless! Take risks, go outside of your comfort zone, and let loose. Once you do, this giant weight will be lifted and you'll be on track for bigger and better things. You can't back down now, show the world what you're made off! There's nothing in your way anymore so don't be haunted by your fears! After all, Franklin D. Roosevelt wasn't kidding when he said "The only thing we have to fear, is fear itself!"
-N